Lumivae calm & desire

I have a drawer full of supplements that didn't do anything so I was not optimistic about this either. I ordered mostly because of the guarantee. I can't point to one specific moment it changed, it was more like I gradually started feeling like myself again, more energy, better mood, less flat. Then one day I just noticed I was warm in a way I hadn't been in a long time and I was like oh... Oh okay. I feel more like the person I was in my late 20s than I have in years. me and my boyfriend hooked up the same day. This time him touching me didn't feel wrong, it didn't feel like a chore. For the first time in a very long time I could focus on what made me happy rather than doing it for my boy friend. I truly do believe Lumivae was a way out for me. Im still taking HRT for the rest of my menopause problems . slowly but surely I am finding my way back!

I didn’t have relationship problems. I didn’t need to ‘reconnect’ with my husband. I needed to WANT SEX again. That was the problem. I could go weeks without having a sexual thought and it honestly scared me because I used to have a very healthy sex drive. For me the change happened gradually over about four or five weeks. First I noticed sexual thoughts popping into my head again. Then I started wanting my husband to initiate. Then one night I didn’t even wait for him. I made the first move because I genuinely wanted sex. That progression was when I knew my libido finally felt alive again.

I used to joke that my husband had enough sex drive for both of us because mine was basically nonexistent. He would flirt with me and I’d laugh, but there was no sexual feeling behind it anymore. Around three and a half weeks into taking Lumivae, he kissed me in the kitchen and I suddenly got turned on. Like actually turned on — not ‘maybe I could get in the mood eventually.’ I wanted to have sex right then. We didn’t even finish cleaning up dinner. It had been so long since desire hit me that quickly that I almost couldn’t believe it. That was exactly the feeling I had been trying to get back.

My biggest fear was that I had permanently lost my sex drive. I’m only in my 40s and I hated thinking that the sexual part of my life might already be behind me. I gave Lumivae time because I knew I wasn’t expecting an overnight miracle. Around week seven, I started noticing that I was waking up wanting sex again. Then one weekend morning I rolled over, looked at my husband, and all I could think about was having him touch me. I initiated before either of us even got out of bed. There was no convincing myself, no doing it for him, and no waiting to see if I could get interested. I was already interested. I wanted sex again. That was the whole reason I started.

I had gotten to the point where I genuinely thought this part of me was just gone. I love my husband, I’m attracted to him, and we have a good marriage, but physically I just never felt that pull anymore. I started Lumivae without expecting much because I had already tried other things. About two and a half weeks in, I noticed I was feeling calmer in the evenings. Then one night he came up behind me in the kitchen and put his arms around me, and instead of immediately thinking about everything I still needed to do, I actually melted into him. I wanted him to keep touching me. It sounds simple, but I hadn’t had that spontaneous reaction in such a long time. That was the first moment I thought, okay… something is changing.

For me, the worst part was the guilt. My husband would initiate and I would already be thinking of an excuse before he even said anything. He never pressured me, which somehow made me feel worse because I knew he was trying to be patient. I started taking Lumivae because I wanted to see if I could feel like myself again. I didn’t notice anything dramatic during the first week, but by the end of the third week I realized I had initiated twice without even thinking about it. That had basically stopped happening in our marriage. A few nights later I looked at him while we were getting ready for bed and genuinely wanted him to touch me. I cannot explain how good it felt to have that feeling come from me again instead of forcing it

Okay so I was not expecting this. I have been dealing with this for probably three years and I had genuinely accepted it as just my life now. My husband and I had gotten to this place where we were just kind of coexisting and I knew it was because of me and I felt terrible about it but I also didn't know what to do anymore. About five weeks in I woke up one morning and reached for him before I was even fully awake and he was so surprised he didn't know what to do lol. That was the moment I knew something had actually changed. We are not the same couple we were six months ago and I mean that in the best way

Did not think I was going to become this person again but here we are lol. I'm 46 and I had genuinely made peace with the idea that that part of my life was kind of winding down. I tried the drops and I felt less stressed and more relaxed at first which was nice. Then I realized the maca root complex was doing something else entirely. I was wrong about winding down. My husband is very happy about this. I am also very happy about this. That's all I'll say without getting into details haha

I almost didn't write a review but I felt like I had to knowing how down bad I was. I was going through the motions for so long I forgot what it felt like to actually want to. I noticed I was thinking about him during the day again, just randomly, the way I used to. That was the thing I had missed the most and I didn't even realize it until it came back

I had convinced myself it was just normal now. I love my partner, I'm attracted to him, but I had started avoiding even just being close to him because I knew what it might lead to and I didn't want to have to say no again. The guilt of that was honestly worse than anything else. I don't feel that way anymore. The guilt is gone because I don't have to force anything. I can't really explain it better than that.

I'm 39 and I thought this was just what getting older felt like. I had stopped even thinking about it because thinking about it just made me sad. I didn't tell my husband I was trying this product. One night I surprised my husband and he literally asked me if I was okay because it had been so long. I'm ordering my third bottle. I wish I had tried this two years ago and didn't lose all that precious time

I genuinely forgot what it felt like to actually crave sex. I still loved my husband and thought he was handsome, but if he never initiated, I probably could have gone months without even thinking about it. I started Lumivae hoping for something, but I was skeptical. About three weeks in, I was getting ready for bed and suddenly found myself thinking about having sex with him before he had even come upstairs. That might sound normal to some people, but for me it was HUGE. I actually initiated that night, and the best part was that I wasn’t doing it because I felt guilty or because it had ‘been a while.’ I genuinely wanted sex. I forgot how good it felt to have that desire come from me.

My libido had basically disappeared. My husband would make a move and I would immediately think, ‘Not tonight.’ It became so automatic that I started wondering if I was ever going to want sex again. Somewhere around the second week with Lumivae, I started noticing little flashes of desire again. Then one morning I looked over at my husband in bed and had this very clear thought: I want him. I actually woke him up because I wanted to have sex. The look on his face was priceless because I hadn’t initiated in forever. That was when I realized this wasn’t just me being in a better mood — my sex drive was actually coming back.

At 46, I had pretty much accepted that wanting sex was something younger me used to do. I could enjoy intimacy once we got started, but I almost never had the urge to start it myself. It took about five weeks before I really noticed a change. My husband came home one evening and I caught myself watching him from across the room and thinking about sex. Completely randomly. No date night, no romantic setup, nothing. I kept thinking about it until I finally walked over and kissed him. We ended up in the bedroom way earlier than planned. I remember afterward thinking, ‘Where has THAT been for the last few years

I wasn’t looking for more affection. I wanted my SEX DRIVE back. There is a difference. My husband and I cuddled, kissed, went on dates — our relationship was fine. I just didn’t have that urge to rip his clothes off anymore, and I missed it. Around a month after starting Lumivae, that started changing. I noticed myself thinking about sex during the day again. One afternoon I actually texted my husband telling him not to make plans after work because I wanted him home. I couldn’t remember the last time I had sent him a message like that. He definitely couldn’t either

The thing I missed most was being horny for absolutely no reason. I know that sounds blunt, but that’s really what it was. I didn’t want to need candles, a date night, two glasses of wine, and perfect timing just to feel interested in sex. I wanted spontaneous desire again. It took me around six weeks with Lumivae, but then it started happening. I would randomly think about my husband while I was at work. I’d catch myself wanting sex before he even mentioned it. One Friday I practically counted down the time until he got home. That spontaneous sexual feeling was exactly what I thought I had lost.

I had tried enough ‘libido supplements’ that I really wasn’t expecting much. Most of them did absolutely nothing for me. With Lumivae, I didn’t notice some crazy overnight change either. It was closer to the beginning of my second bottle when I realized something was different. My husband and I were watching TV and I kept thinking about having sex with him. Eventually I just turned the TV off and initiated. He actually laughed and said, ‘Okay, what has gotten into you lately?’ The funny part is that I had been wondering the same thing. I finally felt sexually interested again instead of just agreeing when he wanted it.